When I don't know what I want

I was there, and sometimes I am still there. Stuck. No idea where to go. No idea if I have a purpose.

But that is normal. What is not normal is being stuck for a long time, losing touch with the purpose of what can be a wonderful life.

I am starting to use 4 NLP steps and they help me find momentum. They are very simple to use, and I am here to share them with you.

At Youemi we create and help people with 4 pillars: career, money, relationships and health. All of them are fundamental for a balanced life. If you don't take care of one, it affects the others. So at purpose level, you need to focus on your weakest one.

Understand who you are and where you are at the moment. What are your strengths, the ones that make you invincible? And what drains you, what sucks your energy like a vampire? 🧛🏻‍♀️

Are you still here? Good, you are halfway.

Are you visual, kinesthetic, auditory or auditory digital? And you ask me, Fabrizio, what the heck are those?

Visual: you speak fast and you see pictures all the time in your head. If this is you, draw what you see in your head.

Kinesthetic: you speak slowly and you like feeling. You are nice and lovely with people, like the other 40% of the population.

Auditory: you like a good voice, maybe you listen to music all the time. Music is your safe place, so listen to music.

Auditory digital: you like facts and things that make sense. Think logically and keep going.

In the end we are all a mix of the 4. Just find the predominant one.

Is this what you want to become? Do you truly think this is your purpose? You don't need to change your life today. You only need the momentum to keep going.

Good luck. Remember, keep building. You are not alone.